Technology continues to cater to the lifestyles of people across the world. The medium such as the internet succeeds in making life convenient for either the college student or the day to day working person. For those who are not familiar of the internet, it allows us to complete tasks such as reading a newspaper or book. The impressive medium also allows users to shop on line, pay-off utility bills, and place food orders. Sounds like a lot right?
Not only can the medium limit how much a person enacts within the real world. The internet also allows users to chat or possibly meet with people from across the world. There are many websites where people can create accounts and upload pictures in hope of scoring a date. Is this good or bad for people to substitute the act of meeting a person face to face as to engage into the cyber-world? I believe this idea of exploring people or enrolling in dating websites is by far ridiculous and sets a bad example, for the generations yet to come.
Whether my opinion matters or not, peoples’ lives have been impacted by this idea of online dating. Lives have also been taking into account as some people take the next step, which is meeting the person he or she has met online. The stories range from kidnaps to rapings and even death in result of meeting someone online. My feeling towards online dating is that it takes away the act and experience that comes with meeting a person at a dance, shopping mall, or institution. The realism that comes with meeting a person in real life cannot be substituted with e-mails or picture comments.
People are to experience the “natural” that comes with meeting someone at an event or store. By natural I mean simply feeling shy or perhaps surprised by the person that comes into your peripheral vision and compliments you on your physique or questions, if you would consider calling or going out on a date. This type of interaction I feel is better than connecting with someone you have met by browsing through age brackets or sex preferences.
The advertisement photo that I have attached, comments on this idea of dating online. Let’s say if I were a person that was interested in the product being advertised, I would simply assume that its target is active internet users.
The keyboard which is framed in a specialized order hints to the topic of online dating. The viewer is not able to see the keyboard within its complete dimension, but only some parts of it. Seeing only certain parts of the keyboard signifies that there is something personal the ad would like for its viewer to see. Using online dating sites as an example, when you view a person’s page it is what you get. You are able to see a profile picture or a description of the person, not the actual person. If one wanted to see more of the person online, one would have to make such arrangements and take chances which could be very dangerous.
The advertisement also shows the phrase “Find my date” located on the enter button. I believe that implies “Enter at your own risk”. People choose whether or not to enter online dating services. Once people hit the enter button, they become bombarded or later become addicts for the services provided for meeting others. The enter button almost serves as a door to another world (cyber-world), which can be a dangerous door for all ages and genders.
Millions of people everyday go on chat lines and dating services online hoping to find that special someone, a person to talk to, or whatever the case may be. Whether you meet someone online or in person you are taking a chance either way. I just feel that meeting in person is much safer, because you can see what you are getting yourself into, as to online it becomes a fantasy or a guessing game. Most of the people on the online dating services lie about something, so you aren’t really getting to know them for who they are. If you meet someone in person they really can’t lie about themselves because you are there to see for yourself.
In conclusion, online- dating services should not become apart of natural life. There are a range of people with criminal backgrounds with “rapist” playing an essential role to these sites. I feel meeting someone in person is the best way to get to know someone.
Technology has changed so much, and not necessarily for the good. Many people on the online dating services show themselves in ways that are inappropriate. For the internet to play roles that are educational or work related is acceptable. But for people to utilize the internet in hope of finding a partner downgrades the purpose of internet usage.
